To begin, I think all women need to be reminded that they are beautifully created and it is up to them to maintain that image in their minds no matter what society, men, or other women may want to influence them to believe. God makes no mistakes so you all have been created to be wonderful and productive individuals in this world. If you don't believe that about yourself, however, no one else will believe it. It is hard enough getting other people to see the inner and outer beauty that you possess, so it is surely most efficient to realize that you are ALL BEAUTIFUL. Not half the population, not 1/4, not 3/4, ALL are. It is time for women to become united in the effort to support all of their sisters in this world and for men to realize the wonderful aspects of women...
Chris Rock's movie "Good Hair" has taken a lot of heat lately because it supposedly releases a lot of secrets of their hair techniques that African American women to hold on to in our society. While I do agree that it is key that women have a sense of privacy in the area of their personal hygiene and their body as a whole, hair should not be so major of an issue. If you have female friends or even worse, male friends, that complain about your hair, you surely don't need them. With so much going on in this world, hair should not be as major of an issue as it is. If a man doesn't like you because of your hair, you do not need someone that petty in your life, because at the end of the day, he is not going to do your hair for you and should be much more concerned about how you all mesh rather than how your hair meshes with your appearance. And if that is the primary issue a man has with you, then there is a deeper problem that you may need to have with that man. *SUSPECT*. But that is for another discussion....
And since we all came from a woman
Got our name from a woman and our game from a woman
I wonder why we take from our women
Why we rape our women, do we hate our women?
I think it's time to kill for our women
Time to heal our women, be real to our women
And if we don't we'll have a race of babies
That will hate the ladies, that make the babies
And since a man can't make one
He has no right to tell a woman when and where to create one
So will the real men get up
I know you're fed up ladies, but keep your head up
Pac couldn't have more eloquently worded the plight of the woman greater. The future of our world is dependent on women because they create the babies, so if for nothing more than that, they should be placed on a high pedestal for that. Men must realize that they are inherently emotional beings so what is wrong with practicing a little bit of patience? We all want our mothers and sisters and daughters and cousins and nieces and aunts to be uplifted, so how is it possible that you do not extend that same courtesty to all women? Though men must hold the women up to a high pedestal, women have to continue to build their pedestal and keep it clean as well...
Respect must be given in order to be earned and no one is greater than that rule. If women desire to be treated as the queens they deserve to be, they must carry themselves as such. Don't follow trends that aren't true to your heart just to remain in a clique. Never be afraid of branching out because God will always be there with an extended arm. In this life, we are basically judged for what we do, so remain focused towards constantly DOING things that represent the positive aspects you desire rather than simply TALKING about them. It's nothing more frustrating than seeing women with statuses that say they are the classiest, best, most intelligent, best dressed, 5 Star Bitch. If you are willing to call yourself a bitch, live like a hoe, and dress like a slut, how can you expect people to see you in a different light? No one can see what goes on inside of you, so while many women that dress seductively are some of the most classiest women, they are presenting two different images. If the man can see your panties or all of your cleavage, how you can expect him not to say something sexually explicit. In all of your efforts, I implore all women to represent themselves as the queens they are because not only will that attract that one special man that will treat you right but it will also make your outward beauty match the wonderful personalities that you all have the capability of possesing...
God Bless...PromoDave Signing Out...

